Is this what a dad should do to his daugher?

well the other nite i wonted to see my dad after like 3 years and i would of fought hes wonted to see me and be happy id came and i was tlkin to him trying to sort it out and he was just blaming everything on me bkos alot of stuff happen in the past and i didnt get on with my new step mum,and i was crying and i was like well u never had the right to slag my mum off al the time in frunt of me and he was like yes i did your mums this and that and he just made me feel really not happy and i told my mum what he said about her and she was likee What your not seeing him anymore and he sed some really horrible stuff, today i was goin through some stuff and there was theese letters to him from solicitors about me theres about three and i keep readin them about my dad puttin me distress and like conversations that was took place with me and my dad in a car and i was pressured, and emotinal abuse. He took my number and said he'll take me out, but shud i bother meetin him? WHAT SHOULD I DO??!